There are so many benefits of no’s and closed doors. We get so caught up in what we want and trying to make things happen that we miss the benefits of our failed plans. Now, I know what you’re probably thinking, “What good can come from me not getting what I want?!” A lot, actually. Here are just a few of the benefits of no’s and closed doors:
Makes Room for Better Things to Come Along
The truth of the matter is, we don’t always know what’s best for us. Sure, we think we do, but if we’re being honest, we’ve all made some bad choices. No’s and closed doors usually make room for us to receive something better. They often redirect us to situations and opportunities far greater than we could ever imagine. As the saying goes, when one door closes, another one opens. And it’s usually better.
Some doors need to be closed!
Provides Clarity
No’s and closed doors often provide us with clarity. When we have so many options, we can be scattered, running around in circles. When closed doors limit our options, we’re forced to focus and clarify. They cut us off from pursing pointless, fruitless options and redirect us towards more productive opportunities.
Breeds Gratitude
Honestly, how many times have you looked back and been grateful that something you thought you wanted didn’t work? That job you thought you wanted and the company folded? That man you thought you wanted and he turned out to be a jerk? Personally, I’m grateful for every no and closed door I’ve ever experienced because they’ve only made me better. I’m sure many of you can say the same.
Can Only be Understood Looking Back
Oftentimes, we don’t understand no’s and closed doors in the moment. Usually, they only make sense when we look back. It’s only when we’re in the opportunity created by closed door that we understand it was necessary. They may not make sense initially, but they will eventually.
Should be Embraced
Instead of fighting no’s and closed doors, we should embrace them. Now in full transparency, I’ve only came to this conclusion after alot of experience. For a long time I fought like hell to turn those no’s into yes’s and kick open every closed door. But guess what – it was an exhausting waste of time. When I learned to embrace my no’s and closed doors, I learned that they weren’t for me in the first place. When we learn to accept what isn’t for us, we make room for what is.
What are some benefits you’ve learned from no’s and closed doors? Drop a comment below.
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